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I'm back! Finally decided to write here again. How I miss writing here again, truth be told I donno what had actually happen between me and this blog but after a month or so abandoning it I feel like writing here again. 

I might close it again for awhile. I might delete it. or I might still writing it after this, God knows. They said, it's a cruel world out there, but I cannot restrict myself or I might not learn a thing. Yes, it hurts but I love writing, sharing things and whether you like it or not, I'm just going to write. 

I'm here to learn. I came across a situation not long time ago where they questioned me on my knowledge on books and writing. I thought I'm passionate enough about both but when they questioned me on Islamic books, I've never read any. yeh! long time ago, when I was a kid. Well, I do read on Islam on the net a lot, but the questions made me sad and I know I've got a lot to learn and here I am, learning. Pray for me :)

They said, there are 3 types of people here in planet earth. 

One is where they like to talk about ideas, new things and technologies, theories and stuff like that. 

second is where type of people who likes to talk about events, parties and things occurred in their lives.

and the third one is where some part of the world who likes to talk about other people. 

it is understandable that type one is the greatest. people who their entire lives talking about new ideas, theories and on how to change the world or at least make the world a better place to live in is probably people who likes harmony, peace and loving to each other. They are very rare to find but I know that these people are among us. probably you? :P

the second type: people who likes to share information. people like this are people who likes to blog on events. you can see most of the contents are about places they went and things they do. YES! we are among them. yeh! series of events in our lives, the question is whether other people really want to know? :P

oh last but not least, the third one. or should I call, Mak Joyah. people who likes to talk behind backs and bad things about others, in other words, jaga tepi kain orang. I seriously don't get these sort of people but you know how people wanted to be treated as they treated you? So I guess, these people talk bad things about others and wanted others to say the same thing about themselves. make sense I guess :P

oh Well, there are plenty of things I wanted to share with you guys, but for the time being, let just go with the flow, shall we?

Take care everyone :)

You reckon?

" Marriage is not about finding someone you can live with for the rest of your life, it's finding someone you can't live without "


Yakinlah bahawa sesungguhnya jodoh itu rahsia Allah masanya pasti akan tiba...





PS Ya Allah, berikanlahku PetunjukMu.

Lesson 4: Be Positive!

" It's not about what happened in the past, or what you think might happen in the future, it's about the ride. There is no point in going through all this crap, if you are not going to enjoy the ride, and you know what... when you least expect something great might come along, something better than you even planned for "

( Along Came Polly)

Lesson 3: Change for good

" Everyone thinks of changing the world but no one thinks of changing himself "

this part, let's pray to be a better person, everyday, and I will pray that us will be a better person in the future, insyaAllah :)

Lesson 2: Sincere

" I will try my best to mean what I say and say what I mean "

Lesson 1: Dream

" Close your eyes and make a wish: I'd give anything to know that one day i'll be happy :) "

It's never too late for a second chance

Nights in Rodanthe. One of the stories written by Nicholas Sparks. Nazren asked me to watch it but it gave me goose bump whenever I read the taglines: It's never too late for a second chance. I've never believe in second chance, even though, my whole life, I've been given second chances too many times.  Well, perhaps I don't believe it when it comes to love. Hati dan perasaan tak boleh buat main. Yes, people make mistakes, but you don't go ditch the good ones, and have fun with others and out of the blue, knock on the good ones' door and say things like hye! I'm ready to commit. that's simply bullshit.

so Yesterday I have the courage to watch it after he nags me to watch. The story goes something like this: there's this woman with her life in chaos called Adrienne, once an artist, has 2 children and an ex-husband who left her about 7 months ago and now who has asked to come home with him. she retreats to the tiny coastal town of Rodanthe, to tend to a friend's inn for a weekend where she meets Dr. Paul, the only guest in the inn, divorced with 1 son and has to face his own crisis of conscience. It will then change to one magical weekend that will change the rest of their lives.

A week later, she came home and said No to the husband, while Dr. Paul, is his own self again, not in regrets and leading a happy life. Yes, they do keep in touch trough letters and decided on one night to meet. She prepared everything for that night when he did not show up. Yes, she waited forever for him to appear in front of her door but later that morning, a knock on her door, standing there, Dr. Paul's son. He came to tell her that, his dad died in the storm one night, but he wanted to thank the woman who has save his dad's live, saving each other's lives, and bringing back his old dad.

of course, she is devastated to hear the news. but she comes to her sense, even though he's dead, but their loves never die. I like the part where she told her daughter about him, this is what she told her:

"Ok, while your father and I were apart, I've met a man, I know you've only known your father and me, and I love your father, because he is your father but there's another kind of love, that gives you the courage to be better than you are, not less than you are, one that makes you feel, everything is possible, and I want you to know, that you can have that, I want you to hold up for it, I want you to know that you deserve it, you hear me?"

that's my favorite part of the movie. Indeed, she is a strong woman. Nazren, thank you for asking me to watch it. :) Let's go watch Message in a bottle pulak :P